A retrospective exploration into pre-school years!

Choice can be fruitful. It can also be overwhelming. I find every part of early years and home education requires discernment and choice. As a result, it means that everyone's learning journey is unique.  The resources available are vast, even books can be a minefield. It is arguably one of the most important umbrella resources. Yet parents can be left feeling bewildered and uncertain which direction to choose. The prospect of teaching our child to read can be scary. We can get caught up in the 'what ifs' and fear.  After all, reading is a crucial life/survival skill, not just an academic one, which might not be used.  I narrowed down the overwhelming choice by following a set formula.  1) Place your child at the centre and modify this template to showcase their personal interests. 2) The Classics. Every culture will have their own personal children's classics. Thus it is subjective to a degree.This genre for myself includes Beatrix Potter, The Very Hungry Caterpilla...

Xander failed his two year old assessment test set by the health departments.  His fine and gross motor skills were not where they should be. He wasn't drawing a house.  He wasn't threading beads.  He wasn't as agile as he should be. The list went on. He failed every question. He is an extreme preemie, born at 28weeks, so the above was expected. As a mother you don't like hearing they've 'failed' though. They didn't want to know about his cognitive skills and just dismissed this part of him. He wasn't expected to do it yet so it didn't count. I did my own review with Xander at this time in the form of a verbal quiz. He told me 1-10 in Japanese, his colours in English and Japanese, counted 1-23 in English, and pointed out and named 14 body parts including his heart.  He recognised the alphabet out of sequence and told me a word example without prompting: Alligator, baby, cat, daddy, elephant, funny, grumpy, hippo, insect, jump, kangaroo, lion, mum...

This occured in their golden age of toddlerdom. It was their first time within arts and crafts using glue and embellishments.  It didn't go as I had envisioned in my mind. Then again I wasn't certain back then that we had two girls on the spectrum. In retrospect it makes perfect sense. Sophia wanted to just order everything and find a home for each specific group of trimmings.  Kira gave a running commentary of everything she picked up, describing the colour, shape, and the feel of it before she passed it to me to stick down. Neither wanted to touch the glue.  They were very happy and content. They were learning and processing. I could tell this at the time and now armed with what I know about the girls I am certain.  Kira loves talking about facts and information, and Sophia finds peace and calm in ordering. She goes to a happy place.  I wasn't leading the session, there was no objective. It was a perfect time to observe the girls and see how they respond to ne...

This was their uncle's not so innocent suggestion. They were two and four years old, and the eldest struggled with baths and water play in general.  They had warm water and Duplo. I did not water proof the room. I did not expect them to play with this activity. They played so beautifully. Until they didn't. It was successful however. My eldest wasn't scared of the water during this fun activity. What would I have done differently? Taken them outside!

When we think of hand strengthening exercises through play for children, we commonly turn to playdoh, threading beads, and throwing balls.. Let's not forget the vital role of hand actions here. Many nursery rhymes have their own hand movement dances. Who can forget the classic incy wincy spider. The day a child learns the climbing up the spout movements without tangling their fingers up is a day of celebration.  Think of the simple movements for the finger family. It may irritate you immensely as an adult, it may be an boring song. The hand movements are however pure gold.  They are a great step towards dexterity required for the 1-5 fingers, used in playing the piano or keyboard and for using fingers for maths sums. This is even before the training for writing. Xander made this connection the other day. He was so excited when he realised that he could move his fingers independently to count and he made the link back to the finger family song.

Dress up role play has so many advantages with Early Years Education. Kira loves animals and has consistently wanted to be a vet since she first wore a bumble bee costume. It is the main drive behind excelling in her lessons.  Her favourite role play is to dress up as an animal and have her baby with her all day. She teaches it all the amazing facts she knows about the animal in question. Throughout her early years journey she has buzzed like a bee, learning about how they make honey.  She has been a dinosaur, who crept up behind me and waited silently for me to turn around and discover her. Yes I screamed. She has been a cow, being taken to market by Sophia.  She has been a snowy owl flying over the snow. She has been a spider, and given me a very detailed presentation on facts about them. She has been a safari guide, who took Sophia and myself on a journey across the plains. She spent an hour talking about the animals found there in great detail. She has been a hibernat...

Mud kitchens are such great fun!  There's an added bonus on top of the educational skills you practice when role-playing kitchens inside the house. It's out in nature!  You're all getting fresh air, vitamin D, and all the feel-good hormones. The ingredients list is also greatly extended by being outside. Dirt, flowers, grass, stones, and sticks make beautiful dishes.  Children can play for hours, making all different dishes with available garden elements.  There can be a lot of discussion on the choice of ingredients. Chocolate soil for the cakes obviously. Dandelion tea can be on the menu, along with healthy veggie sticks.

 You may be acquainted with Bluey.  I'll admit it's not the worst show out there. I was playing 'Born yesterday' one time with Kira whilst I was baking pancakes.  This is where you pretend you were born yesterday. You question everything, asking for explanations. I discovered it has the potential to be very educational as well as equally fun and frustrating for children. I was putting her through her paces with it, steering it educationally, and she was rising epically to the occasion.  She was explaining everything to the nth detail bless her. Every explanation she gave raised another puzzled question from me.  Another game inspired by Bluey, which keeps them amused for hours, is keepy uppy with a balloon. Obviously, we have an educational spin of counting in multiples, for example, every time we pass the balloon.  It would be a great theme for a birthday party for a little Bluey fan. Recreate the games and win prizes.

These are currently my four year olds favourite bed time stories. He had asked for the rest in the series, that's a recommendation!  It's great that this series has a simpler version of the story at the bottom for first readers to attempt, so it can be a shared activity.  The tactile element is a bonus for children who appreciate exploring through their senses. Reading together as a family unit creates: - A magical world - Bonding moments - A love of books - Precious memories  - Expansion of vocabulary  - Fun times  Bedtime stories can feel like the most draining activity for parents, who are exhausted and still have jobs to complete before their night has ended.  Reading to them remains one of the most important jobs of the day. This moment can happen at any time however, not just at bedtime.  Encouraging siblings to read to each other is a win win. They're learning as well as enjoying the bonding activity.

I see you lying there, grasping a block with both hands.  You are going cross-eyed as you bring your treasure to your mouth.  You knaw at the wood, exploring and teething.  You wave it around enthusiastically, your lip wobbling as it tumbles from your hands. I see you sitting poker straight, working at your core muscles. Tapping two blocks together, chuckling at the sound. You are learning cause and effect, revelling in the resounding noise. I see you concentrating, your tongue is slightly extended.  Brows are furrowed, hand trembling as you lift one block.  Eye and hand coordination is in practice.  Slowly, you go, not wanting to fail. Your happiness is unbounded as you build your first tower. I see you throwing blocks in frustration. You want to build the tallest tower, yet it topples time and time again. I dry your tears and return the blocks. Keep trying little one towards victory. I see you building, and an entire castle stands tall.  Quickly and ...

Here, have a friend  You do not need to share or lend. In case you feel lonely, And don't have a pony. A soft bodied doll,  To snuggle is the goal. She has a relatable face Quiet comfort, which is ace. From the ones who love you most, For you to cuddle close. Here, have a friend, Someone to cuddle till your journey end. Clipped within reach, They delight your senses and teach. Listen to the crinkle sound, As you're pushed around town. Feel the textures, The dress fetches. Smell a comforting scent, Which doesn't cost an extra cent. Shhh little one, sooth your gums,  Whilst you explore with your fingers and thumbs. Here, have a friend, Just for you to tend. A classic baby doll, They still top the popularity poll. Responsibility beckons, You are there within seconds, Your baby needs you, To feed, wind and change them too.  Here, have a friend, These are the latest trend. A fellow toddler by your side,  They eagerly come along for the ride. Together, you adventure a...

This was a part of a space topic we did when the girls were three and four years old...which took a creepy turn. My innocent activity of turning paper dolls into astronauts took off on a spontaneous pathway.  Kira decided to decapitate the paper dolls heads, and amputate legs and arms for planets, rockets and the sun for Sophia to colour and order, who had also been busily going through a space sticker book.  Between them they created this gruesome but very impressive poster made from body parts, whilst singing about the solar system on repeat. This was the result of letting them grow up in a learning environment where they were encouraged to explore creative materials, using them unconventionally, alongside listening to educational songs.

Many of you may appreciate this fact about children. No. No. Maybe not appreciate. More like are resigned to this particular fact about our little ones. They love watching the same shows, episodes, and songs on repeat.  Sometimes for years. Their dedication is astounding. There will always be a few that erode your brain cells and decimate your patience.  I learnt something by my third child. Yes, I'm a slow learner.  We don't have to watch a show which really shreds every last nerve on repeat. We won't win every battle on this front, life is about compromise.  However. By the third child, I realised I could choose the programmes in advance and introduce them to my children.  It was a game changer. I also can sometimes convince them to give up channels which I particularly find annoying. It is only fair that there is a really good reason why they are not allowed it, and not just ban it.  There was one recent one which I really did not like. My seven year old...

Screen time for children is a sensitive subject, as some parents do not allow their children to watch tv/videos whilst they are young.  There are many valid reasons cited for this decision. These include the lack of exercise involved, and taking away from family time. Screens can be addictive and all consuming for the child. Screen time can take away from more traditional tactile toys. It can be seen a glorified babysitter. It can open the doors to inappropriate content, leading to over stimulation, and distraction from learning.  I'll be perfectly honest, I strongly believed all of this when Sophia was born, and I was determined that she would not be introduced to this world when she was a baby.  I wanted her to traditionally play and love books. My experience of children's TV did not impress me. I certainly did not want her to watch TV just for the sake of watching.  When she was 18 months however, I stumbled across Mother Goose Club on YouTube accidently, which le...

Welcome to our preschool blog!  We are the Morris family, the majority of whom are neuro divergent. It is truly amazing to watch our three childen grow up and develop as we go through their homeschooling journey together.  Here we are looking at the years of 2015- August 2019. This is when the three children were born and commenced their learning journey.  Life is not simple as we have many long term health complications. Sophia, Xander and I have a rare bonemarrow failure condition. This keeps us very busy visiting various hospitals, with the joys of endless waiting times, numerous departments, and appointments.  During these series of blogs you will see how we juggle homeschooling and hospital. I lived a childhood going between traditional school and hospital myself, thus it is so refreshing to be able to teach them fluidly and consistently within home education.  I know they cannot fall behind, unlike myself, who had to retake the entire school year as a resu...